The most guiltless slice of pie

After a Swedish exam with four parts (done in 5h) and 14 km more on my running shoes, I feel this is the most guiltless slice of apple pie I have ever eaten.

Now it's time to relax.

The WTF moment

Apparently irony runs in my family.

Last year, me and my parents were walking around in the city center of my home town when we saw a group of people surrounding someone laying on the road. We understood that something had happened. As we got closer we realised that there were two people laying down, and they were my cousin and her 4 year old son. They had been hit by a car when crossing the road. She was happy when she saw us, and I can only imagine how nice it must feel to see someone you know in a situation like that. She even said I looked like a vision, since she didn't know I had already arrived.

My cousin broke her leg but her child had no big injuries. My cousin's knee has not been easy to heal though and she had to take a lot of time off from work. Now, almost a year later, she can walk and she was advised to go to a gym and train the injured leg to reinforce the muscles and recover its strength. She did. But on her first session there she could not believe what her eyes saw. Who works in that gym as personal trainer? The guy who was driving the car who hit her.

... or as she called it: the WTF moment of the day.

Libraries, making me happy since 198someting

It was Saturday and the plan was to study the whole day for my Swedish exam next week. Not a very exciting plan, but it all got better when I decided to go to the library. I found out a while ago that one can also borrow magazines, and I have been loaning the Swedish version of Runner's World, both to practise Swedish and because I like running.

When I got there I saw they were having a book sale, probably as a way to get rid of those issues that didn't get loaned so much. Many of the books looked quite old but I decided to have a look anyway. And there they were... in the middle of the pile of books there were two huge cookbooks waiting for me. One was by Gordon Ramsay, my favourite chef, and the other one by Nigella Lawson. I bought both for 10 kr, which is like 1 euro. I couldn't believe how lucky I was! And that's how one improves by a lot a fairly regular Saturday. 

Yeah, my dream came true. I do live in a city where libraries make me happy.

The Sara way #3

Or how 10 kilometres turn into 15...

More than a year after I moved to Prague I got lost while running in my own neighbourhood. It was raining cats and dogs and I couldn't see the way. That was my excuse that day.

Yesterday, also more than a year after I moved here I got lost when I was running. Me getting lost is almost becoming a tradition. 

Last weekend we cycled to a neighbourhood, full of small attached houses that look alike, around where I run sometimes. This time we took a right on the main street and went up to the forest. Yesterday I planned to go there to the entrance and back, so it would be quite exactly 10 km. When I was there I didn't feel like running up the hill so I decided to just continue in the main street, because it's flat. The same street where I have ran some other times. Then I remembered that last time, after seeing the map online, I saw that I didn't have to turn around, but I could turn left twice, go around and go back to the main street. Simple enough, I thought. And it was. I ended up exactly where I thought I would be. 

So what was the problem? The problem was that I didn't bloody recognised it! There are some open fields in the beginning of that neighbourhood and somehow coming from a different perspective made it so it looked completely different, at least in my head! When I came to the main road, that for me was just a road then, I had to turn left or right. Had I turn right, I would have seen familiar buildings after 50 m, but my brilliant instinct told me to turn left. Of course. I should have still recognised it because I have ran there before, but all the houses look the same and I didn't see it.

So I happily ran in the wrong direction not understanding where I was. I tried to go up a small road, because I thought I recognised the name, but it felt like a dead end so I returned and continued on the bigger street. It was only when I saw signs for the next city that I understood that something was really really wrong. 

I went back again, took that smaller road again and decided to go to the end and check if it really was a dead end. At a crossing I stopped and decided to ask someone. And then even before I had time to find someone to ask, it hit me! I was on the road up to the forest! I recognised it then! But... but... but... that meant that the road I have been running up and down is the one I was looking for!!! No... it's too stupid... Did I really do this?

Yes I did. 

After a few minutes I was back in the fields and I finally saw it. Suddenly, all the unfamiliar buildings became familiar and I couldn't help but laugh at myself. Relieved, I ran back making it home with 5 extra kilometres in the bag. 

Then I heard Johan's voice. He is abroad in a conference and one of the things he told me when he left was: Sara, try to not get lost when you run this time. Oh well...

Top 5 essentials - others

When I was writing the post about the 5 essentials in Sweden, for the Newbie, I started thinking about other essentials I may have used when I was living in other countries. I gave it some thought and here are my Top 5 essentials in all the countries I have lived. I must confess that I had to push a little extra to get to the ones in Poland. It feels like I lived there a century ago!!

I'm not sure this will be as much fun to read as it was to write but I hope so!

PORTUGAL

1. Sunblock - The sun surely shines a lot in Portugal, even in the winter.

2. Sunglasses - The sun shines a lot and can affect sensitive eyes, especially to those not used to it.

3. Warm bed lining/pyjamas - Winters in Portugal are mild, but the temperature is often the same outdoors and indoors.

4. Indoor slippers/flip flops - Many houses and flats in Portugal have tiled floors. These are really cold, sometimes even in the summer, so indoor shoes are needed.

5. Strong stomach - if you want to try everything there is to try. Portuguese food is awesome, but it can be on the heavy side and sometimes a bit on the weird side too. It is usually worth it!

Sunrise in Brazil

BRAZIL

1. Sunblock - The sun shines even more than in Portugal. Use a stronger SPF.

2. White clothes - They help to keep you cooler. Other lighter colours work.

3. Good skin moisturiser - Your skin will be thankful, after all the extra showers you will need.

4. Deep pockets or pockets with zippers - Or any other kind of protection against pickpocketing.

5. Water - Tap water is not drinkable, so I always carried with me a bottle of filtered water. 

6. Patience - Sooner or later one needs to deal with the complex, unbelievably weird and famous Brazilian bureaucracy. Patience is needed. In large amounts!

POLAND

1. Gloves/hat/scarf - also essentials in other countries, but it was in Poland that I understood how important they are.

2. Dictionary - many people don't (didn't?) speak english and with smartphones still under development it was one of my best friends.

3. Polish crash course - see number 2.

4. Sports equipment - winters are grey and depressing, and the best is remedy is to practise a sport. Poland is full of great gyms, fitness classes, football pitches, indoor swimming pools, salsa clubs, you name it. 

5. Deck of cards - to break the ice in a party, to play solitaire when there's no electricity, to take to a picnic by the lake in the summer. 

Prague

PRAGUE (in CZECH REPUBLIC, but some are exclusive to the capital city)

1. Public transportation card - Cheap, good coverage and very useful.

2. Camera - It's a gorgeous country and great images await to be photographed.

3. Comfortable shoes - because you do want to walk around a lot and not miss anything.

4. Czech crash course - it is always better to know a few words in the language, especially if you want to explore outside of Prague.

5. Time for culture - Art, music (jazz, classical, blues, exotic, ...), theater (dark light, puppets, experimental, ...), etc. There's so much cultural events happening all the time that I was "forced" to leave my assumptions behind and enjoy new things. I never regretted any event I attended, even the most weird and exotic ones. I only regret not having it done more. 

Sara Jump - Český Krumlov

Český Krumlov, Czech Republic - December 2015

Český Krumlov

Český Krumlov is a charming little town in the South Bohemian region of the Czech Republic. This was the place most pointed out by Czechs when asked about the place one should absolutely not miss in the country. The city is gorgeous with narrow cobbled-stoned streets and colourful buildings. It's center is crossed by the Vltava river, still small, which increases even more its beauty. At night, the city lights just bring it a whole new look, with breathtaking reflections on the calm waters. It is absolutely the place to visit in Czech Republic. After Prague, of course.

Český Krumlov é uma pequena cidade encantadora na região da Boémia do Sul na República Checa. Este foi o sítio mais apontado por checos quando inquiridos sobre o lugar que não se deve absolutamente perder no país. A cidade é deslumbrante com as suas ruas estreitas e empedradas, rodeadas por edifícios coloridos. O centro é atravessado por o rio Vltava, aqui ainda pequeno, o que aumenta ainda mais sua beleza. À noite, as luzes da cidade trazem-no um novo olhar sobre a cidade, com reflexões de tirar a respiração nas águas calmas. É O lugar para se visitar na República Checa. Depois de Praga, é claro.

The Český Krumlov castle is the second biggest in the Czech Republic, only beaten by the one in Prague, which makes it unusually large for the size of the city itself. It seats on top of the hill and provides gorgeous views over the city and the Vltava river.

O castelo de Český Krumlov é o segundo maior da República Checa, apenas superado pelo de Praga, o que o torna invulgarmente grande para o tamanho da cidade em si. Fica localizado no topo da colina e oferece vistas deslumbrantes sobre a cidade e o rio Vltava.

 My sister looking at the landscape / A minha irmã a apreciar a paisagem

City as seen from the castle, with the St. Vitus church in the background.

Cidade vista do castelo com a igreja de S. Vitus ao fundo.

The garden and the arches below also belong to the castle complex. A large, pleasant and interesting area.

O jardim e os arcos abaixo também pertencem ao complexo do castelo. É toda uma área agradável e interessante.

 St. Vitus church / Igreja de S. Vitus

We also went up the castle tower and got a panoramic view of the surroundings. It is quite high up compared to the bottom of the city. It was a nice day with a beautiful blue sky, although quite cold.

Subimos também a torre do castelo que tem uma vista panorâmica dos arredores. É bastante alta em comparação com a cidade. O dia estava bonito com um céu azul brilhante, apesar de estar um frio de rachar.

We visited an antique shop/museum that showed some products of the good old days. Among them we found some hair lotion called Portugal. Quite the coincidence!

Visitamos uma loja de antiguidades/museu onde vimos alguns produtos dos bons velhos tempos. Entre eles encontramos uma loção capilar chamada Portugal. Uma feliz coincidência!

Of course the experience included some eating as well. Bohemian food is very popular in Czech Republic and we did enjoy our choices, especially the potato pancakes (on both pictures on the left).

Claro que a viagem também incluiu comida. A comida da Boémia checa é bastante popular e nós gostamos de todos os pratos que experimentamos, especialmente das panquecas de batata (em ambas as imagens à esquerda).

As the food was not that light it felt good to go for a walk and enjoy the city night lights and reflections. Quite a view I must say! It was the perfect end of our trip and of our time in the country. We did go back to Prague afterwards but then it was just a lot packing and stress.

Como a comida não foi era muito leve soube-nos bem um passeio nocturno, durante o qual desfrutamos das luzes e reflexos da cidade. E que belo passeio que foi! Foi o final perfeito da nossa viagem e do nosso tempo no país. Ainda voltamos a Praga, mas foi já tudo muito stressado e com muitas malas para fazer.

Goodbye Czech Republic!

Adeus República Checa!

Six degrees of separation #2

Sometimes I want to believe that we are all related and that within 6 steps we can connect any 2 people in the world. (There's actually a Swedish TV show who plays with this and it works most of the times). 

Today I met a woman who works in a local museum. She is Swedish. We talked for a while and it didn't take too long to find a connection point between the two of us.

I told her I am Portuguese and she replied she has only been to Portugal once, in the 90's. She went with her football team on a training vacation to Algarve. At the time, there were a few Swedish football players in Benfica and it was common for the teams to visit each other. She remembers going there to train and she also remembers when Benfica visited Sweden. She met a few players and even has an autograph of Valdo. In the 90's, I was a huge fan a football and Benfica has always been my team. In the weekends, me and my friend Catarina would sit at home, listen to the matches on the radio and write funny reports about it that we would then compare on the Monday after in school. We were crazy about João Vieira Pinto, mas we were also big fans of Valdo. 

To meet someone so far away that had actually lived something similar to me was quite exciting!

Deep inside we are indeed all connected to each other, whether it is through relationships, events or life experiences.

Life is full of irony #2

That life is ironic is no big news, but sometimes things happen in such a timing that I feel life is testing me instead. That it's questioning my choices and making me re-think my decisions. 

In April last year I was offered my dream job. In another country. I had been in Sweden for 3 and half months and I did not want to move. I had decided that this was it, no more moving. I was certain of my decision and I turned the job down. 

I was unemployed for all of 2016 and many times I questioned what to do with my life. I'm an educated chemist with 10 years of experience. I'm also a chemist who has nearly always been unhappy with my jobs. I wondered if I should just quit and work in a different area. Or was I just unlucky with the places and people I had worked with? These and a million other questions assaulted me for months and months. The indecision, the not knowing what to do and the pressure to pursue my happiness were almost suffocating at times. I always thought time would bring clarity but what if it didn't? I hided my anxiety behind training, school and other daily routines. It worked because I kept myself busy which at the same time relaxed my fears. As time passed things did became more clear and I decided to leave chemistry.

In the end, it was not so much of a decision but more like an admission to myself. I knew I didn't want to work on the same thing again, I was just scared of saying it out loud. I looked back at everything I have done and I chose to work with the one thing that had always make me happy: organising big conferences. It was December 2016 and I had a lot to think about and plan. The timing was perfect, as I could now speak reasonable Swedish, which would be essencial to enter the market in this area. In this way, I started 2017 with three plans. 

Plan A: Look for jobs in that area.  

Plan B: Arrange for an unpaid internship and get enough experience that way. 

Plan C: Take a 2 year course in the area (free in Sweden), which would almost guaranty me a job at the end. 

I sent numerous job applications, some spontaneous applications, emailed conference centres, registered in different help groups, etc. It really made a huge different to know what I wanted, because I got myself a goal and worked towards it. When nothing worked, probably because organising a couple of conferences and a few smaller meetings was not enough experience, I went for plan B. I arranged an internship, thinking that if I would be so good at it they would want to hire me at the end. In case that didn't work, I was already arranging translation and conversion of all my certificates and grades in order to take plan C.

All was planned. In February I got an internship. The people seemed really nice and the job easy enough. I would start in April, when my Swedish course went from 20h/week to 5h/week.

And then the phone ringed...

Hej! Do you remember that job you applied for in August last year? We want to interview you.

What job? Ah... that one... in Chemistry...

Confused and surprised, all I could think was "stupid ironic life, always testing me!"

I accepted the interview but I did not want the job. I did not want it so bad that I barely prepare the interview, reading only my application letter.

I got there and met two really nice people. They made me so comfortable that I forgot I was in an interview. The description of the job also sounded much better than what I thought. It was actually quite different from what I had before. I left the room wanting the job. 

Two days later I got a call back to a second interview. But now I wanted it and I was nervous as hell! It went alright but not as well as the first. The decision would be made within a week, they said. It was only between me and one other person. As the days passed I convinced myself that it wasn't me, a self-protecting mechanism. 

But it was... a week and a day after I was offered the job. 

Will it make me happy? I don't know. 

I surely hope it will. 

This time, life showed me I was not ready to abandon my area. 

But this is the last chance I'm giving it.

It's all or nothing.

Random 'facts' about Sweden by Colin Moon

I saw a list of 15 random 'facts' about things Swedish on LinkedIn and after having a good laugh I decided to share some here. 

• Food There is much variety. Mustard, for example, sweet or strong or both, comes in jars, tubes or squeezable bottles.
• English Swedes are excellent at English. A manager at a global company wanted to say a few welcoming words to a group of international visitors. 'You are almost welcome to Sweden', he said. 
• Religion Most Swedes, thank God, are not that religious. Anyway, if Christ came down to Scandinavia he'd have to change planes in Copenhagen.
• Decision-makers Saying yes or no can lead to conflict, so Swedes have invented a cross between the two - 'Nja'. This means yes-but-no-but-yes-but-no-but-yes...maybe...not sure.
• Common sense When God gave out common sense then Swedes were at the front of the line, waving their queue ticket, which by the way was invented by a Swede, Bengt-Åke Nummerlapp.
• Neighbours Norway is a strange place outside the EU, very rich and therefore less of a joke these days. The Danes drink beer in the street so they are considered continental and the Finns think the Swedes are talkative, sophisticated socialites.
• Eating out In other countries people fight to get the bill. In Sweden, however, people divide it up. Lena should pay less because she didn't have a starter and Ola should pay more because he drank like a fish.
• Swedish history Gustav Wasa. He invented crispbread. *(Joke between Vasa, the king, and Wasa, the brand)
• Swedish seasons The Swedish summer is the warmest day of the year.
• Punctuality In many parts of the world meetings start when they start and not before. In Sweden, meetings start on time and finish with 'any other questions'...but don't you dare!

Original text by Colin Moon.